I was having an honest conversation with myself about my patterns in love. The kind of conversation that is uncomfortable, quiet, and hard to avoid once you start asking the right questions. Why did I stay? What was I repeating? What did this connection reveal about me?

As I sat with those questions, I realized something. I could not be the only woman navigating these patterns internally. More of us could benefit from slowing down long enough to reflect without shame, without performance, and without turning it into a public debate.

So I turned those questions into a card game.

What started as a private reflection became a structured tool. I began playing the game with other women. The conversations were honest. Raw. Familiar. We were not just talking about men. We were talking about ourselves. Our patterns. Our conditioning. Our hope. Our blind spots.

Those conversations led to the filmed series.

The Situationship Reflection Game is now both a guided card game and a filmed series. The series captures women speaking openly about love, attachment, boundaries, and the connections that did not become what we hoped. The game offers space to ask those same questions yourself, privately or with someone you trust.

This is not therapy.
Not a quiz.
Not a fix.

It is a space to pause. To notice. To understand what happened and what it revealed.

We live in a culture where gender wars trend and blame becomes content. It is easy to point outward. Harder to look inward. This project invites something different. Accountability without shame. Growth without spectacle. Emotional honesty without performance.

Instead of asking who hurt us, The Situationship Reflection Game asks:
What am I repeating?
What am I tolerating?
What am I ready to change?

I created this project because I believe reflection is powerful. When women speak honestly about their flawed patterns in love, it creates permission for others to do the same. It shifts the conversation from accusation to awareness.

This is not about choosing sides.
It is about choosing growth.

Because sometimes the most radical shift is not calling someone else out.
It is calling yourself in.